Our hearts are with Paris.
Prayers for Paris.
#PorteOuverte
We’ve all heard about it by now, and still, I can’t write
the words.
I can’t write them because I can’t find them. They’re lost,
floating around somewhere in a sea of sorrow and disbelief.
Words are my currency, my vessels of expression. I’m a
writer. It’s what I do. It’s what I know. It’s how I communicate.
But I can’t write about what happened in Paris.
I can’t write about it because I can’t understand it. I
can’t write about it because it doesn’t compute. I can’t write about it because
it’s unfathomable.
How do you put words to something so senseless? It’s like
trying to write about an alien planet in a galaxy that’s just been discovered,
where the creatures that inhabit its unfamiliar surface are surrounded by an
atmosphere of toxicity, one that my human body doesn’t recognize. One I
couldn’t survive in.
It’s like trying to write in a foreign language, one I’ve
never learned to speak, one that doesn’t register when I hear it verbalized.
It’s like trying to write about something so immeasurably horrendous,
that the mere effort of putting it into words is too painful, and my mind puts
up a defense barrier that won’t allow me to go there.
*
Do you know what I was doing when the first news reports
started coming in? Frosting cookies. I was frosting car-shaped gingerbread
cookies for my twin boys’ third birthday party, while they bounced on the couch
in their mismatched jammies as my husband read them bedtime stories.
It’s surreal, isn’t it?
As we began hearing more and more details, my husband set
the storybook down on his lap and looked up at me.
“Isn’t it crazy?” he asked, my toddlers still bouncing on
the couch cushions, blissfully ignorant of the evil that goes on in this world.
“Isn’t it crazy to think that we’re sitting here, getting the boys ready for
bedtime, reading them stories, and there are people out there who think we
should die? That there are people out there who would come in here and rape
you, and probably kill the boys? That there are people who actually think it’s right to do stuff like that?”
It’s not just crazy. It’s painful.
*
I can’t write about what happened in Paris.
I can’t write about it because its reality, once
acknowledged, is incomprehensibly terrifying. Painfully terrifying.
I look at my sweet, perfect boys, and imagine someone
wanting to hurt them. The mere thought leaves me breathless, leaves my body so
paralyzed with fear and denial that I can’t even shed the tears I feel
condensing in the depths of my soul.
They are everything beautiful about this world. They are uninhibited
joy. They are unadulterated love.
They are life.
Life: A perplexing word, isn’t it? So small, so concise. So compact. Four little letters that
encapsulate so much vibrancy, so many intricacies, so much love and energy.
But that’s my boys: enormous souls housed in tiny bodies.
They are life—souls
and hearts manifested corporeally, with the ability to express and communicate
and simply be.
They are life,
just like I am. Like you are. Like
every single victim in last night’s attack was.
Every single one.
I can’t tell you how many: how many lives—mothers and fathers and sons and
daughters and friends and sisters and brothers—were actually taken last night.
I can’t tell you because I can’t read, watch, or listen to
any of the news reports about it.
It hurts too much.
And I still can’t write about it. I can’t write about the
innocent lives that were lost, or the not-so-innocent lives that stole them.
I can’t write about the pain. I can’t write about the
horror. I can’t write about the irrationality.
What I can do is
pray. I can pray for the families of the victims. I can pray for the citizens
of Paris. I can pray for the people in this world—those who hurt, and those who
do the hurting.
I can pray for peace and change.
And I can live.
I can be grateful for the life I have—the life I still have.
I can frost birthday cookies and read bedtime stories. I can
kiss my husband and hold my boys close to me. I can honor the lives that were
lost by celebrating and cherishing the ones that weren’t.
I can’t write about what happened in Paris.
But I can live. I can live with purpose, intention, and
gratitude.
And I can let my life do the talking (or the writing) for me.
Wow, Sam.... so well written. Our kids are inheriting a scary world.... Thank you for your words and thoughts :)
ReplyDeleteThank you so much, Elsy. Sometimes it's hard to make sense of it all, and it's difficult to figure out how to raise kids in a world that we seem to have a hard time navigating as adults.
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